My spouse seems not to have much feelings of empathy, compassion or pity. This has been amazing for me to realize, because on the other hand my spouse can cry when he sees a romantic or a sentimental movie... But when my spouse sees a person cry or realizes someone is feeling dab because of his behavior, that has no effect of any kind on him. I have tried to accept this as a fact, that that is simply is the way my spouse is, that he does not mean anything bad with it, that he just simply does not have "tools" for understanding emotions of other people properly, as it often is the case with a narcissists... but sometimes it is so very difficult to live with a person like that. Sometimes we all need emotional support, and if we dont get it from our husband or wife or girlfriend or boyfriend and from our relationship, where then can we get it?
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